Friday, July 21, 2006

Am I still in Africa?? (erin)

So I am a little bit confused...I think this heatwave we are having in BC is delaying the culture shock I am supposed to be experiencing. I was never this hot in Uganda on any day. Africans are smart to build their houses with cool bricks, clay and cement. What are we thinking using wood and living up high closer to the sun???

Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Home time (erin)

I am not experiencing any traumatic culture shock yet. I am enjoying being home and I'm amazed at how the same everything seems. The only thing I notice is that there are SO many white people here!

I got a full physical at the doctors and am taking worm medication just as a precaution. So far, so good...nothing unusual is happening. I've had my massage therapy and chiropractic treatment and so I am feeling pretty good. I am a bit tired in the afternoons but overall am sleeping ok. My left ear is still plugged from the plane descent though, I hope it's not broken.

I am loving my overhead showerhead!
I am loving my fridge that has power 24 hours.
I am loving my television that magically has cable...not sure how that happened but I'm not complaining.
I am loving internet in my home.

I am missing the girls' company (yes Chandra, you were right, I miss you guys).
I am missing the fresh mangoes.
I am missing text messaging.
I am missing our friends (that includes you Jen ;)

I guess I have to find a job now...the fun is over!

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

We are on Canadian soil!

Yes, we made it home after a very long 2 flights. By the way JENNIFER, I tried calling you when I got home but you didn't answer your phone...did you notice the missed call???? Gee whiz, I can tell she misses us, can't you?

So just to keep everything updated, Sunday morning 5 of us and Charles' little girl squashed into Nasser's car for the last time and headed to Kampala. We went shopping for last minute gifts for people and then with Chandra and Taddeo we all headed out to Entebbe. Well, contrary to what I had been told, there were no rooms available in the city and to top it off, there had been no power there for 3 days. We checked out some different guest houses and finally settled on two that could house all of us.

The house that Jen and I stayed at had a restaurant so I had my last Ugandan meal there...matooke to keep me strong, rice and beef. It was a typical Ugandan meal. First we asked what there was because it was obvious they didn't have everything on the menu. The choices were fish and beef, matooke and rice. I asked, "You don't have chicken?" "No."

We weren't ready to order so a few minutes later another server came and I asked what they had for snacks. One of the options was chicken! It's all so confusing. So Jen and I ordered chicken...then 5 minutes later we were told there was only one plate of chicken left, so I ended up with beef.

The lady at the guest house assured us that we'd have breakfast ready for us at 6am. And we were thankful that power came on that evening when we got back from dinner. BUT when we woke up, no power. Boo hoo! We got up and walked around to the front of the house...no lights, no sounds, no movement. We knocked on the door..nothing. Louise arrived outside the gate but it was locked and no sign of the guard. So she called the lady and she finally woke up and let Louise in and gave us money back for not having breakfast ready.

Then our van pulls up to take us to the airport, only in typical Uganda fashion, it was not the van we had yesterday as we had arranged, it was a car. For 8 of us and 4 suitcases to travel in. Of course this would happen! I texted Chandra the news and according to Carli (she told me later on) they had a good laugh together when they read my text and said, "Yep that sounds like a typical morning for Erin!"

Then we drove to the airport (we called another car for Carli and Chandra). The taxi driver tried to charge us 15,000 shillings for a 10 minute drive! Charles managed to bargain him down to 10,000 thank goodness cuz that's all I had...and that had been borrowed from Jen already!

Then I had my last samosas that I will ever have...I am samosa'd out. We said our goodbyes to our friends including Jen, who has been crowned the winner of Survivor Uganda...(but she doesn't win any money, too bad).

The first flight was fairly uneventful. We were lucky that two seats across the aisle from us were free so Carli was able to sit near us and I ended up sitting next to her cuz my TV broke. It was stuck on a really bad radio station and I couldn't change the channel or turn down the volume. Of course I would get the broken TV.

We panicked a bit getting to the next plane because our flight was a bit late and we only had an hour in between, but we made it in good time. In good time to sit and wait and die of heat exhaustion. Don't let anyone tell you Africa is hot...London is soooo much hotter. And as we sat on the plane waiting for the plane traffic to clear, the air conditioning breaks. And because I had the window seat my legs started to burn because of the heat flowing through the vent in the wall. I think we sat there for an hour with our pants rolled up, fanning each other with our safety manuals, until they managed to fix it. That was rough.

Another fairly uneventful plane ride after that though. No turbulance, it was very nice. Then we had to wait in a really long line up at customs which made us really restless especially considering our flight was delayed by almost 2 hours. Luckily we got our bags really quickly and made it out to our families. My parents and best friend were there to meet me and we went for Thai food.

:O Well, day one by myself.....

Finally arrived home from taking Carli, Chandra and Erin to the airport in Entebbe at 10:30 PM.
I have learned from Charles that they made it home safely. Wasn't that nice of them to send me a message or an email to let me know they made it home safely! Thank God for Charles! Ok enough of that, you would think I would be use to them forgetting about me.... remember when you guys went to Kampala .... yeah... make me feel like that again!

Tuesday all by myself... what ever did I do to fill the day! lol Well I would like to thank Erin once again.... MY THROAT HURTS. So I have pretty much been laying low and out of trouble. Now I have managed to make it to the internet cafe and who did I run into.... well I'll just have to fill you in on that later!

As to what I will be doing the rest of the week.... you will just have to stay tunded!

Well..... Just so you ALL know I am moving to a new place in the morning. We should have stayed there instead! To bad it wasn't open when Leigh set it up for us. Which we are all thankful for. No worries to the new students for next year. I'll see what I can do for you guys. I have managed to get myself a fridge, two burner hotplate and dishes. No I didn't buy it myself the hotel is supplying it for me.

Friday, July 14, 2006

Last week! July 9 - 14 (erin)

Sunday afternoon I went to Berna’s house to visit her twins. They are very cute, Paula and Prima. We went to the supermarket together and then we took the twins back home and she walked me to my place. We picked up Chandra and had a snack and drink at the Brovad.

That evening we had Chris and Nora, Sister Prossy and her daughter Favour over for dinner. We made spaghetti (of course) with sausage, garlic bread and Szechwan green beans. It was a good evening. Sister Prossy brought us all souvenirs as gifts. Then we went to the Brovad to watch the last football game but I only lasted about 20 minutes and I needed sleep.

Monday, Chandra and I went to Kampala with Nora. We caught a coaster bus and I was all settled in my own one-seater thinking it would for once be a comfortable ride. Well right next to me was placed a duffel bag with one live chicken in one end and a second in the other end. Then the seat was folded down onto them and a lady in her Gomez (traditional dress) sat on the seat and luckily for me the chickens were covered. Part way through the trip I swore I felt a chicken peck at my leg and I panicked but when the lady checked under her dress the chicken was nowhere near me so I guess it was my imagination going wild again.

The drama continues. As soon as we started pulling away I saw three little wee spiders coming down from the window right into my face. I swatted them away. Less than 5 minutes later, another 4 little spiders came down their webs and looked at me. Then there were two on my arm, one on my sweater, one on my bag and one in my hair! So I used Chandra’s newspaper to swat them away. And then I started looking around for where they were coming from and noticed that just to the left of my head was a huge web filled with these little spiders!! So I used the newspaper to scoop them all up and dropped it on the floor. Then I continued swiping away little spiders coming down from the window and hoping that they weren’t all crawling up my legs. There have been many times on this trip where I have felt like I am on Fear Factor and this was one of them…how long can you sit on a bus with tiny spiders crawling all over you? Apparently 2 hours, but I didn’t win any money.

Kampala was its usual crazy self and we nearly got hit a number of times. Nora is a fast walker and at one point her and Chandra were like a block away as people kept budding in front of me. I thought I’d be lost forever, but I managed to catch up before they even knew I was missing. Chandra got material and took it to a seamstress to get outfits made for some of her family. I got material for curtains. It is imported from the Congo. For the ride home we had to wait on the coaster in the taxipark for a long time for it to be full. Vendors would come by the window and try to sell all sorts of things. Children’s toys, bread, candy, sunglasses, clothing, mosquito nets, drinks, you name it. Some guys even sang to us, crooning love songs. I caved and bought a lollipop. He tried to sell it to me for 2000 shillings but I laughed at him and he said, oh okay, 200.

That evening Chandra went to Nora’s to make chapatti and Charles came over and we had spaghetti leftovers with Jen and watched a Luganda movie. Charles and Jen (the Aries’) found it pretty funny but I guess I wasn’t in the mood, or I just don’t get their humour.

Tuesday morning Fred came by to visit and then we went shopping for our party the next night. Jen and I met an American at the bakery that is doing some work with USDC. And we took pictures around town.

We invited Bruce and Brigitte for dinner at the Brovad to thank them for the use of their kitchen. We invited an Irish boy over to our table who kept us entertained. Then I went to meet Charles’ family. They were very nice. They had a wee little kitten, probably 6 weeks old. Someone had hit it with a big stick and its back legs were broken. So it walked around dragging the two legs behind it. It was the cutest cat ever, but so sad! As soon as I touched it, it started purring so loudly. Then it followed me over to my seat and sat between my feet. When I picked it up it just cuddled on my lap. It was really enjoying the attention, poor little thing. I want to take it home!

Wednesday, the three of us went to Tekera to say goodbye to everyone there. We had to ride in the back of the pickup truck (sorry Mom, I broke the rules again!). It was not very comfortable because the truck was filled to the brim with solar power equipment. The cab of the truck had 7 people in it so we had no choice really. But we were kind of upset about it all because we had asked if there was room and they said yes…we easily could have found another way out there. Anyway we got banged around pretty good and Jen nearly fell out of the truck a few times, but we made it alive.

We watched the boys work for awhile and then said our goodbyes. Got some good pictures. We gave Senior a Canadian flag and Junior a Canadian flag hat. Then we went to the hospital so we could take more pictures and do some paperwork. Jen and I went into town to say goodbye to our friend Jack at the bank and go to the internet. Then we prepared our rooms for the goodbye party we were having that evening. We dressed up and then went to the Brovad for dinner and met up with Jack there. Then we went home and everyone started arriving. There was Charles, Jack, Louise, Jeff, Tony, Favour, Phionah and a couple others. Fred, Sam, Becky, Sarah and Richard came later on. They played a game called The Fun Box and it was fun but I didn’t play cuz of my stupid head again.

Thursday, Jen and Chandra went to internet café while I slept off my headache drugs from night before. Then Jen and I went looking for a craft store that the American told us about but didn’t find it. We visited the liquor store to buy gifts and I bought a shawl thing I had wanted in the clothing alley. The rest of the evening was non-exciting, at least for me.

This morning Chandra left for Kampala with Favour. She had gotten the impression that someone was driving them but when they arrived, they had 4 boda bodas to pick her and her suitcases up to take them to the taxipark! Haha! Luckily, Nasser arrived to pick me up to go to Kitengeesa, so he took them to Kampala and he called his friend to get Jen and I. This afternoon we have been playing around with our pictures, cropping and enhancing them. Jen and I have also been negotiating room rates at different nearby hotels for Jen’s last month here. We are getting good at it! The owner of the new hotel across the street said that Canadians are rich and have funds so we can afford their offer…we had to laugh and explain that not every Canadian is rich!

Tomorrow we are going to a drama put on by the nursing students. Fred is the organizer and writer so it should be really fun. Then Sunday we head to Kampala with Charles, Louise and Fred. We meet up with Chandra and do last minute shopping and then that evening we go to Entebbe. And that leaves us with…Monday, our flight home! We leave at 9am. We arrive the same day in the evening Vancouver time.

So I guess that’s it!

Just a few pics ;)





The picture of us relaxing is how we felt after our first few weeks here. EXAUSTED :)
The picture of the group of us was taken when we all went to Jinja. This was taken at the Source of the Nile River. For those of you who do not know the 'boys' in the picture, well maybe you should just ask... ;P
Oh and the Equator, yes water does drain in opposite directions depending on what hemisphere you are standing in. But I would have to say the best part is right on the line the water drains straight through.... ohhh and if you stand directly on the line you weigh 3 yes THREE pounds lighter.

Thursday, July 13, 2006

FINALLY SOMETHING FROM JEN

Hello ;)

Wow only one week.... less than a week and I am suppose to be home! Yes, you read that correctly SUPPOSE to be home. I have decided to extend my stay here in Uganda.

I feel in my heart that I am not yet suppose to leave. I do not know why just feel it. Something has drawn me here and has a hold on me. I know you may be disappointed but believe me when I tell you it is harder for me to have to tell you over the net. But what can I do, fly home and tell you then come back. That would just be tooo much for me.

You may have heard about this baby that was abandond at the hospital where I work, well I would be more than happy to take the little guy home with me. Seems it is a long process and you can only take one step at a time. We .... I mean I will just have to wait to see what happens. I will keep you posted as I know what is happening.


I miss, love you and hope you will understand......


Yours truly,

Jen

"We have so much work to do, so much 'healing' is required...and whether we know it or not all our lives are interlinked."

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

July 3 - 9 (erin)

There is not too much news to update you on as we are on holidays now! We spend a lot of time at the internet café and just hanging out. It is really hot this week, like I mean REALLY hot. I am so thankful it has not been like this the entire time. My goodness we never would have lasted. No energy…



On Monday we went to Louise’s place and watched a couple of movies and then went home and made spaghetti. On Tuesday I went into town and made a CD at a video store. You can choose what songs you want and they will burn to a CD. Unfortunately I didn’t realize that he had burned me a video CD so I cannot play it on my stereo at home. I will have to go back and make another one. It is all local Ugandan music that we have enjoyed here. The videos are funny though so will be fun to play on computer at home to show people.



On Tuesday for dinner, we used the leftover spaghetti and added egg and fried it. It was good. A new invention…an attempt to be creative with the same old food. Wednesday we walked into town just for something to do and did a big shop at the market and visited our favourite (and the only) bakery. We then spent 3 hours unbraiding Chandra’s hair. And then we met two UBC midwife students at the Brovad for dinner.



And now I am attempting to post pictures on the blog and it is taking FOR-EVER!!!!



Today Jen went to Kampala and Chandra and I met with Berna and some of her friends and colleagues for dinner at the Zebra Hotel. Two of them were seed researchers and kept Chandra entertained. I talked mostly to Berna and Eddy who are both social workers. Eddy is going to Toronto next month for an HIV/AIDS conference so wanted to meet some Canadians. It was a fun night. Not often we have been able to talk to people in our field or that are older and they thought it was funny that we had both been given clan names so they called us Namatovu and Namanda all night. They are going to meet us Friday night for our last night of dancing in Masaka.



We are relieved that we didn’t go away on any trips these last two weeks because it just seems like there is so much left to do to tie up loose ends and do local things we’ve missed. It’s nice to be relaxed and just enjoy the day.



Friday, July 7



Today Chandra and I went to Tekera to help at the project. But first we had bacon! There is a new meat shoppe next to the internet café and they are selling real meat. So I bought some bacon and I cooked it up this morning. It was good, probably the freshest bacon I’ve ever had. (I’m serious about becoming a vegetarian when I get home, I swear…really…you don’t believe me do you?)



Today Chandra and I went to Tekera to help out at the project and see our Josephs. We tried a hand at laying bricks but quickly realized Scorpio women should not be builders…too perfectionist! So instead we sanded and painted all the door frames inside the community centre. It was a fun day but long and we got tired pretty quickly. Then we went to the Tropic Inn for a final Friday night of dancing. We met up with Charles, Berna, the friends from last night and others. It was lots of fun.



Saturday was fairly uneventful. Nothing exciting to report.



Sunday morning Thomas came by in the morning to deliver presents to Jen from a member of Uganda Schizophrenia Fellowship (USF). The gifts were an entire tree of matooke (the bananas), a huge bag of white beans and….a LIVE chicken. Actually we were corrected, it’s a cock and supposedly a very tasty one! So he handed it over to Jen wrapped up in a black plastic bag with its wee head poking out. She put it in the back with all the other stuff. After a while we got worried about it lying out in the back so we (I should say, SHE, as I myself have a fear of chickens) took it out of the bag and lay it in the shower basin. I thought it might be hungry and to be honest it looked like it was dying so I gave it some beans and crackers. I think it was appreciative of its last supper.



Later I got really concerned about it. We had been hoping to give it to Joseph Sr. but he never arrived and there was no way we were going to eat it after Jen so conveniently named it Charles! So Jen ran up to the Brovad and got our friend and regular server, Juliet to come and take it. She was very happy and just picked it up by the wings like it was normal! Well I guess it is normal, just not for us.

Thursday, July 06, 2006

Description of pictures

1. Our street - walking home from Brovad.
2. Jen and child.
3. Class Erin taught at Kitengeesa school.
4. Jen counselling Bonnie (hospital social worker) in Mental Health department.
5. Lunch at Brovad with Lawrence.
6. The room that Carli, Chandra and Erin have been sharing for 3 long months.
7. John and Carli with the donkeys at Lake Nabugabo.
8. Erin pretending to cook at the restaurant in Tekera.
9. Children we met when touring hospital staff living quarters. Vincent (15), the boy in the middle has been living by himself since his parents died.
10. Masaka town.

More pictures





PICTURES FINALLY!!!





Wednesday, July 05, 2006

I am mentioned on the WWW (Chandra)

I thought I would send you this link so you can see that I have actually been doing work while here in Uganda. It hasn't been all fun and games, although the work I have been doing has been enjoyable.

If you go to www.ugandavillage.org and choose Projects then scroll down to Community School you will see my name mentioned and you can see some pictures of me teaching in Tekera as well as presenting the school's headmaster, Francis, with a gift we had for the school. The four of us girls also have an honourable mention in the May newsletter update and if you keep an eye out, I think I will be in the June update once it gets posted.

This is the NGO that our neighbours Bruce and Bridgitte have been working on. If you look at the sight you will see their pic's as well as lots of pic's of Einer as Tekera is the village he was living at.

Anyway, thought I'd pass that along if you wanted to take the time to peruse it. Talk to you again soon.
chandra.

Monday, July 03, 2006

June 26 - July 2 (erin)

Monday June 26

Today was my first day at the secondary school in Kitengeesa. I was a bit nervous for many reasons. One, I wasn’t sure what I was doing. Two, I’m usually not fond of teenagers. Three, I hate speaking in front of big groups as you well know by now. And four, I had planned to prepare a lesson yesterday but we got home so late and the migraine rendered me useless, and I hate to be unprepared. Fortunately I had some time when I first got there to add to some notes I had made earlier.

My first class was S.2 which is our grade 9 equivalent. There are 50 kids in this class! Somehow I managed to talk about career counseling for about 45 minutes. I talked about the importance of planning ahead for their future and setting goals to achieve their dreams. Then I asked them to share some of their goals and dreams with the class. Tonight I will research some of the jobs they are interested in to let them know what to focus on and what skills and personality is involved in those careers. After the break I did the same talk with S.3 (grade 10). It was funny when I had them share their dreams because coincidentally all the students that volunteered to speak had dreamed of going to Canada. Some of the boys even had dreamed of having a Canadian wife. Imagine that.

Caning is still really big in schools in Uganda. The children say that they often fail exams because they are caned so much. Dan the librarian and our contact for the school understands that this behaviour has to stop. He says that children are repeatedly hit until they get the answer right but he believes now that children will learn even if they are not beaten. Hopefully his way of thinking will catch on with the teachers.

Nasser and Chandra have gone to pick Einer up in Entebbe. He’s just been flown back in from Nairobi. Turns out he had a good case of worms so we have now been advised to not swim in Lake Nabugabo or drink the water from the bore hole in Tekera. Both of which I have done numerous times. Great, I am going to be full of disease and icky crawly things.


Tuesday June 27

Second day at Kitengeesa school. Visited the same two classes as yesterday and this time talked about 4 specific careers they were interested in. Then went to the other two classes, S.1 (grade 8) and S.4 (Grade 11) and repeated my presentation from yesterday. Talking with the S.4 class was really eye opening. There were only 6 students as opposed to the 40 and 50 or so in the other classes. These students are few because of the lack of school fees, many have to drop out at S.4 level. The students were asking advice on how to stay in school if they don’t have the fees and what encouragement I could give them. Well, I wasn’t really prepared for this and I didn’t have any very good answers. I told them to continue to work hard and continue to believe in your dreams. It’s pretty pointless to talk about becoming a doctor or lawyer if they don’t have any way of even finishing high school.

In other news, Einer went home to Philadelphia today. He had to say goodbye to all the people of Tekera and he was very sad. The Josephs are apparently quite distraught. We had one last meal with Einer at the Brovad so he could have his favourite steak and beer. Then we pushed him off with Nasser to Entebbe. The three of us then went to the internet café and came home in time for dinner, so we thought. It was totally not our turn to cook, but alas, nothing was made for us. So back to the Brovad we went. I can’t wait to start eating healthy again. Although the steak covered in garlicky cream sauce and the smooth creamy mashed potatoes are delicious, it is so bad!

The weather has been really nice lately. Kind of cool, and no rain all week. I hear that it’s 35+ in Vancouver this week! Aiiiiya! Bambi (sorry)!


Wednesday June 28

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SPIRIT! She is 14 today.
I am really going to miss my avocado on toast and fresh mango in the mornings!

Today at the school I talked to the classes about school fees and some solutions that I had come up with. I told them I wasn’t sure if they were good ideas because I don’t know everything about life in Uganda so perhaps the ideas would not work. I was hoping they would be able to help me out with some suggestions but the 1st class was still being shy. The second class went really well, however. They started asking questions about Canada and seemed really interested. Some of them got brave and asked big questions like how to prevent HIV/AIDS. It is so good that they are open to asking those questions and weren’t even embarrassed to hear the answers. It’s sad though that they aren’t being taught these things when it is such a huge problem here. It’s too bad Carli wasn’t able to work at the school with me because she’s the expert on talking to people about HIV/AIDS and getting tested. She was able to convince an entire team of professional rugby players to get tested! Thankfully they all were negative. It was a very cool experience for her.

Tomorrow I am going to just plan to talk about Canada and let the students ask whatever questions they want. Dan believes that if people from developed countries talk about how life is there, it will help people here to think of new ways of doing things. That’s a good way of looking at our influence rather than imposing our values. I will go to all 4 classes as it is my last day already. And the teacher, Joseph (of course his name is Joseph), asked me to develop a questionnaire on career counseling that they can hand in to him. He said that some of the S.2. students had been approaching him to learn more about career counselling! Wow. I really had no idea I was making any impact because they didn’t say anything and really sometimes I thought they were looking at me like I was nuts and not understanding anything I was saying.

On the way home I went on a big grocery shopping spree, taking advantage of being driven around in a car. Jen, Chandra and I prepared our best dinner yet. We had scalloped potatoes and onions in cheese sauce, stir fried fresh veggies with sesame seeds and beef sausage in a homemade BBQ sauce. All made in frying pans on two propane burners, I might add. It was fun and quite good. Fred had dropped in to say hi so he stayed for dinner. Then Jen went to the Brovad to watch a movie on the laptop and Chandra and I talked ‘til we were tired…about 10:00. That’s what happens on nights we have no power, we just get tired at about 8:30 and have to force ourselves to stay up to a more normal bedtime.

Just as we had fallen asleep, Chandra got a call from her family so I of course had to make my way out of my mosquito net to go to the bathroom. Well, I thought I saw one of those little cockroaches that had invaded my suitcase before but when I shone my flashlight on it, it was a huge ugly creepy beetle thing with two big long antennae! And it was coming to get me. But it ran away when I opened the door. Phew. I had trouble getting back to sleep after that.


Thursday June 29

Today is my last day at the school and I’m in the library waiting to go to a class. The library is full of students right now for some reason.

So, I just finished my discussion with S.2 on Canada and it was a lot of fun. They are shocked that we have thieves and prostitutes in Canada. And it’s difficult for them to understand why we don’t get malaria from our mosquitoes. It is very interesting to hear some of the boys talk about how hard life is here. For example that they have to walk 20 miles to fetch water and carry it on their heads. They asked me if we had night dancers in Canada. I assumed that they meant strippers so I said yes. And they all gasped and said really? You have people that eat themselves? I said “WHAT?!” They explained that night dancers were cannibals. Well, I had to clarify that we didn’t have cannibals in Canada, at least I really hope not.

The next 3 classes also went well. They all had lots of good questions, some of which I couldn’t answer. I tried to explain how big Canada is and that I can’t possibly know everything about it. Anyway, they seemed to have a good time. Although I enjoyed the opportunity to experience being a teacher I am also glad to be finished. It is tiring talking all day and trying to come up with answers on the fly.

I have just heard that the USDC truck is still not fixed in Kampala so Berna, Charles and Timothy are all coming back on different days by different means. So I won’t be having a last practicum day with USDC after all. But I will go say goodbye to Joseph (office Joseph) and take the gifts I have for his daughter and the other staff. Then I will go around taking pictures with Chandra.

This afternoon we went to visit our Josephs in Tekera because they were very sad about Einer leaving and now both have malaria. It was a nice visit and it was funny because everyone was joking that Junior was now cured of his illness because I was there. We took Joseph Sr. to Kitovu hospital to get medication and then when we got home we found Jen relaxing on her new mat on the grass on the front lawn. So we joined her and had some of our precious Pringles. We decided to not go to Tanzania next week as we were tired of traveling, lacking funds, and were not really excited about crossing a border. I will have to temporarily give up my dream of seeing a giraffe. Another year, I suppose.

Bruce and Brigitte made a really good dinner that rivaled ours the night before. He had even gotten boneless, skinless chicken breast and real soy meat from Kampala, both of which we thought were unheard of in Uganda! After doing dishes, we got really really bored. This was the first time that I’ve been utterly bored to the point of restlessness and the others were feeling the same. I think that means we have made ourselves so comfortable here that we are able to relax and get bored with the place. So we went to the Brovad where Jen and Chandra made a CD for Nasser and I did crossword puzzles.


Friday June 30

Last practicum day! Wow, it’s over already. First I found Joseph and gave him his presents. Then Chandra, Bonnie (hospital social worker and Chandra’s supervisor) and I went around the hospital taking some pictures. Then I went to the office when Charles arrived to open it. We just found out that Bonnie expected us to each write a final report so I had time to do that. Then Timothy came and we talked about what I had learned and what things I will take back with me to Canada. He also talked about ways in which they could use help if I was ever able to fundraise any money. I think I will use some of Auntie Susan and Auntie Trudie’s money to buy tools and materials for the graduates of the vocational school so that they can actually work once they are out of school. If anyone is interested in supporting the school, there are lots of things that they need money for. For example, they can’t afford to pay their water bills so they want to put pit toilets in which is pretty much commonplace for schools here. As well they want to get solar power so that the computers can run even when there is no power.

While I was talking to Timothy and answering his questions I realized that I have really learned a lot of useful information and that my experiences, however boring they might have seemed at the time, have become very insightful and will be useful to myself and my work back in Canada. Maybe I will post my final report to explain some of the things I felt I have learned from being with USDC.


Saturday July 1st/Sunday July 2nd

Happy Canada Day! I spent the weekend in Kampala again. My intention was to visit Carli but unfortunately Charles got summoned to work and because he was my ride, I went with him and wasn’t able to hook up with Carli after all. Not too much happened this weekend. I didn’t get sick! But it was a close call because when we were at a Chinese restaurant I got a bad water. We watched the server open the bottles like they normally do but when I tasted it, something was wrong. So after a few more sips I had Charles taste it and he confirmed it was bad. So he checked the bottom of the bottle and there was a small puncture hole where someone had injected tap water. Scary! So I thought for sure I was going to get sick again. Especially when I got back to Backpacker’s hostel and bought a water…I took a sip and thought, ya know what I’d better check the bottle just out of curiosity. Well it had a puncture in it too! AAAHHH! They are out to get me. Best sweet corn soup ever at the Chinese food place by the way.

Walking through Kampala at night is very difficult and kind of exciting. It was especially bad because of football (soccer) World Cup. It is very very big here. Because most people don’t have their own televisions, they often gather at cafes or outside of stores to watch the game through the window. In Kampala there was one big huge screen on one of the main streets so the sidewalks were full of people and boda drivers and people sitting in their cars like at a drive-in movie theatre. So there were hundreds of people on the streets and vehicles going every which way. The sidewalks are full of vendors and pedestrians so we had to pass on the street which was dangerous because of the boda drivers and taxi drivers. I even got nudged in the back by the side mirror of a taxi! How rude!

I also got to see the Buganda King drive by in his speedy motorcade. That was fun. My ride home in the matatu taxi was a lot more comfortable than usual. This taxi had cushiony seats but it cost 1000 shillings more…definitely worth it. And the driver was so fast that we got home in record time. My eyes were closed most of the way and I was so thankful I was not sitting in front!

Oh and I have a clan name. Nasser has given me the name Namatovu of the Kob clan.

June 23 - 25 (erin)

Friday, June 23



Carli left for Kampala in the morning so I “pushed her off” as they say. Then I went on one last outreach with Timothy, luckily it was in Masaka. We went to a school to check up on a boy that was getting his school fees sponsored by USDC. What a strange school. There were boys guarding the entrance which was a big gate locked with a chain. We had to enter by ducking through a small door in the gate. There was only one teacher in sight and no one knew where the headmaster was. The students were all milling about, some still in their dorms. Weird. Anyway, the boy we met with was very friendly and had a good spirit. He has a problem with his legs and cannot walk but he gets around quite well by crawling. He was probably 15 or so and he had knee pads on his knees and used flip flops on his hands. He had a wheelchair to get to and from school.



The wheelchairs here are definitely worth describing. They are fashioned with bicycle parts and there are many people around town with them. There are two wheels attached to the sides of the chair and one in front. The pedals and chain are used as a hand crank to turn the wheels and the seat is usually just hard wood or sometimes a plastic chair attached to wood pieces (no cushion). There are a lot of people with very visible and very severe physical disabilities but from what I’ve noticed is that they are not discriminated against in schools or in town. Perhaps I have just not been here long enough or been in the right place to see negative attitudes. It’s probably worse in the villages where children don’t get to go to school because there is only enough $ to send able-bodied kids to school. Some people with misformed legs and feet get around by wrapping their leg around a big sturdy stick and using it as a type of crutch. Quite amazing how people get by.



The previous day, Carli and I had bought enough cinnamon buns for all the students at the vocational school and so on Friday I bought 70 sodas and we took them to the school along with some clothes we were donating. The plan was to discreetly drop the stuff off as a surprise but Timothy wanted to make a big production out of it. He gathered all the students and we all ate and drank together and they said a big thank you to Carli and I. He even made me say something. Why do people continually force me to speak in front of large groups? Is it some form of Ugandan torture? Anyway, it ended up being a nice time and they said they were very happy. Then they distributed the clothes to the girls and some pencils and pencil crayons one by one, by one, by one…



After, I had posho and beans with the staff and then did more errands in town with USDC. Finally I got home! I really felt like I needed some exercise and it was a really nice day after so much rain so Jen and I played badminton in the front until the birdie got stuck on the roof and it killed our fun. When Chandra got home we got ready to go for dinner at Chris and Nora’s (bank manager). Junior dropped by to charge his phone as there is no power in Tekera and Jen’s pal Richard also stopped by (he has the worst timing really) and so they two boys walked us to our dinner destination.



Oh my goodness, dinner was so fantastic. There were so many dishes that there was no room on the table for our plates! It is more food than we even have at our Christmas dinners. And the food actually resembled things that we eat at home including sauces with spices and everything! It was so good. Afterwards, Chandra and Jen went to the Tropic Inn for another exciting night of dancing. I had an evening to myself…sort of. Basically all I did was go to bed. But some nights I am just so excited to sleep!



Saturday, June 24



I set off early to Kampala all by myself. I’m getting very brave. I walked into town to the taxi park. I wanted to board a coaster (medium sized bus) but they were all empty and since they don’t leave until they are full I might have been sitting there for awhile. The taxi recruiter people convinced me there was room on the matatu that was just leaving. Well there wasn’t really room but I squished in anyway. I was stuck between two seats that were different sizes so my body was all twisted up. Most uncomfortable two hours ever. Dr. Carole come fix me! But otherwise the ride was rather uneventful…which for me is a good thing…I’m not complaining.



The taxi park in Kampala however, is another story. What I didn’t know is that the matatu pulls into this huge parking lot and squishes it’s way into a line of other matatus…so we’re amidst (no exaggeration) a hundred identical looking taxis. When I stepped out I didn’t know what to do or which direction to go but I was afraid to stop and look lost so I just kept walking and pretended to look like I knew where I was going. Somehow I made my way out to the street. I was still too afraid of stopping for fear of my bag being stolen so I kept walking. Eventually I realized I would have to cross a street which in Kampala, is no easy feat and it’s very dangerous (just ask Carli). But I figured it would be safest to get to the gas station so I just tried to walk when others walked. There are absolutely no rules of the road here, it’s just best to not look really. Pedestrians definitely do not have the right of way.



While I was waiting at the petrol station for Charles to pick me up it started to rain, actually it was just a drizzle, but oh how the people ran! It was quite funny, the entire gas station was filled with people, even where the pumps were. A guard had to clear the way to let a car get gas. So there were some guys that came and stood next to me under the overhang. Two of them looked suspicious and I’m pretty sure that when I bent over they opened one of the pockets of my bag and stole my MP3 player as I discovered it missing later on. That was annoying, but here you learn that things are just things and there’s much more important things to be upset over. And you learn what to do and what not to do in Kampala pretty quickly!



The rest of the day was busy doing stuff for USDC. Taking the truck into the repair shop, taking a computer part to head office, photocopying etc. We taxi’d around in different matatus so it was kind of fun. We even saw a female matatu conductor which is not only rare but basically unheard of. Earlier on in the week I saw the only female taxi driver in Masaka as well which is a really big deal because women don’t often drive in Masaka. Come to think of it I’ve never seen a female taxi driver in Vancouver.



I went to Shoprite to buy some groceries for me and the girls. We even had a boda driver get contact solution from another branch to bring to us because they had run out. What service. You wouldn’t see that happen at home for sure. And I saw President Musevni drive by in his motorcade. They don’t drive by slowly like they would for our Prime Minister or the Queen. They speed by with police cars in front and behind and you’re lucky if you catch a glimpse of him.



Sunday June 25



I arrived home in time to go with Jen and Chandra to visit our friend Louise’s family home. It was a long drive into cattle country in the West. Her mother is caring for 11 orphaned children most of whom are from Rwanda. A lot of her family members were slaughtered in the genocide. Louise is helping to build a new house to hold all the children because there are only two beds in the home they have. They make money through their cattle. We learned that they are breeding English cows (the black and white ones) with local cattle (brown with huge horns) to get the best of both breeds. The local cattle survive well in the heat eating dry grasses and the English cattle give more milk. So it was funny to see our black and white cows with huge horns on them!



Louise’s mother cooked us a freshly slaughtered chicken (which I luckily hadn’t met beforehand) and matooke. The local chickens are very tough and I felt like a real carnivore ripping it apart with my teeth. Only because I was starving and knew it would be a while before I would get other food that I was able to chew the bones clean. Never again. I swear I will become a vegetarian again when I get home to make up for all of this meat eating. At least the animals here are free range and don’t take hormones or antibiotics.



We left one of Mike’s soccer balls, some tennis balls and children’s toothbrushes for the kids. The ride home was torturous for me because I had a bad migraine. And Nasser only has one tape that he plays over and over and over…

“…I’m not an actor, I’m not a star…I don’t even have my own car;

But I’m still hoping that you will stay, that you will love me anyway…”

It’s growing on us. Chandra and I can sing along now. I will always remember Ben’s comment on the National Park trip: “How come when the music comes over to Africa, all the good stuff gets filtered out?”

June 19 - 22 (erin)

Monday, June 19



This week, Carli and I are devoting our time to work at the vocational school for young adults with disabilities (MVRC). So we spent Monday planning our activities. It is really difficult to get the group to talk so we thought of giving them exercise books with questions in them and having them write instead. It worked so well that we wished we had thought of it earlier on in the practicum and I could have spent so much more time with them instead of torturing myself on the outreaches. This first day, we had them write facts about themselves, what makes them happy and sad, what they like about themselves, what they want to do when they graduate, what they would like to learn and what they are thankful for. Carli and I had books ourselves too and they liked that we did it with them. This first day, we didn’t ask them to share because we could tell that things they were writing were personal. When they were done we went to watch the football game (the World Cup is huge here) but some kids were watching Scorpion King. Honestly watching that movie, I was so embarrassed to be from the same part of the world in which that movie was made. So bad.



Tuesday, June 20



Today we did more planning for our group and then ventured into town after waiting some time for the monsoon to stop. For some reason we felt really drained, I think physically and emotionally, so our walk was more difficult than usual. We were really grumpy. Between Carli’s fits of rage and my telling the boda boda drivers to leave us alone, we weren’t in the mood, we probably looked a miserable pair. Plus because it had rained all morning and Carli is bad at pre-planning, she wore her flipflops which splashed red mud all up the back of her beige pants (hence the fits of rage). She also just generally had trouble walking because the dirt here becomes so slippery when wet. She almost ended up on her butt a couple of times. We decided after visiting the market that if our bag of vegetables broke which it was about to, we would just sit on the curb and cry.



Later we went up to the office to see what was happening there. Carli typed up my proposal for me and I typed up some stuff in Luganda from the parent support group meetings. At least I hope that’s what it was and not some terrorist propoganda or something. I would never have known. In the evening we went to the school and we had entered more questions in their books. How they felt about leaving the school, how to keep in contact with school friends and we had them each write something nice about each other in each other’s books (good endings counselling Bob??).



Wednesday, June 21



It rained all morning again and into the afternoon. It was also another busy day. Carli and I first went to the secondary school in Kitengeesa that we were originally going to spend time at. I decided to not go on the learning retreat with USDC next week because I thought even though it would be nice to have time away I’d probably be bored to death (and really, bad things always happen to me when I go away). I had felt bad that we had disappointed Dan and the teachers at the school so I wanted to offer to come next week by myself. We also had school supplies to deliver, sort of as a peace offering. Well the drive into Kitengeesa was fun times. We were driving on a river of chocolate milk! It reminded me of the chocolate river in Charlie and the Chocolate factory. We tried to convince Nasser that we didn’t think we should continue but he assured us it was okay as he held a muffin in one hand and a bag of milk in the other and the rain poured down like nothing else. Well, we thought, “What could go wrong?” Carli really thought that this would be the end of us and so we figured that at least we’d die happy in a chocolate milk river.



It’s okay, we made it to the school. The headmaster and Dan were very thrilled with the school supplies. I told Dan that my aunt was also a librarian and that she had donated it all. He says thank you Auntie Jutta! When we were sitting in the library the rain was coming down so hard we thought the place would float away. On the way home Nasser wanted us to visit his mother so that was nice. She gave us eggs.



We spent some time searching Masaka for magazines but only found one and settled for some newspapers. We then hunkered down at the Brovad on the comfy couches and cut out pictures and words for the next project at the school. We had them make collages in their books and also gave them pencil crayons to draw and colour. They seemed to really enjoy it and time flew by. That evening Nasser wanted us to visit him at his home and I thought it would be nice to see his wife and daughter…well…that’s not exactly what happened. We went to his wife’s store to say hi and pick up his brother and then we went to their “bachelor pad” to watch music videos. That was weird.



Thursday, June 22



I spent the morning preparing the journals for the school. We had taken pictures of everyone individually and as a group and pasted them in the front cover. We also put in our email and addresses for them to contact us. We gave them each a postcard from home (thanks ma), a Douglas College pen and a Canada pencil. Then we put the whole package in an envelope so it was like a present. Unfortunately when we got to the school they were in class because power had gone out earlier and now was back on. They didn’t want to lose out on computer time so we just said a quick goodbye and ran to catch Charles before he left. We then invited him and Berna to the Tropic Inn for a drink as it was Carli’s last night in Masaka.



So we set off to the Inn after dinner and had a nice time. Berna gave Carli a pretty necklace as a goodbye present. We also had our special drink, the local Waragi (gin) and sprite. Carli absolutely refused to ride Charles’ motorcycle home so we had to walk in the dark…which we had already promised not to do by ourselves again…but no phantom ghost cows followed us this time. After dropping Berna, Charles drove by to make sure we made it safely.

June 13 - 18 (erin)

While we were away at the National Park, both Einer and Carli got more sick. Einer has now been flown to Nairobi hospital to get treatment for pneumonia and possibly typhoid. We haven’t heard from him yet but hope he is getting good treatment and is recuperating. Nairobi is better equipped to do bloodwork and other tests. Carli had to go to Kampala to get more treatment for her malaria. At the national park, Catrin met an American doctor studying malaria in Kampala and she told Carli to go to her clinic to get more tests as sometimes clinics here misdiagnose or their test equipment isn’t clean. So she went. Her malaria was confirmed but what happened was that she had been mistreated the first time she got malaria. She had been given the strongest medication that they normally don’t use anymore so her subsequent episodes have not been cured because the other medications aren’t as strong. Therefore the malaria has never gone away! No wonder she’s been sick so long. So she got one more “super injection” and hopefully that will be all of her sickness for the rest of her trip. She has extended her stay in Uganda so that she has more time to enjoy herself being healthy and she can fly home with us.



Tuesday, I went back on another outreach with USDC. This time it was in Sembabule and this two hour drive is really brutal. You cannot understand how bad these roads are unless you actually experience them. It’s really unimaginable that this was a main road. It is literally 4x4ing all the way. Sometimes we were so far down a crevice that it felt like we were driving on 2 wheels. Other than that, not too much exciting happened on this day. It was the same presentations as last week so I mostly sat in the truck and tried to comfort myself by saying, “at least I’m sitting in a truck in Africa.”



This was Catrin and Ben’s last night in Masaka and boy were they glad to get out of here and away from the Curse! We were sad to see them go because they were really fun and we enjoyed having new people to talk to. I think they are the only other muzungus besides those we live with that are not fanatical religious missionaries. I hope the rest of their stay in Kampala goes well.



Carli came home from Kampala on Wednesday night and I was glad to see her. But I was also happy that she had made some new friends in Kampala and was able to have some fun times. I can’t remember what else happened on Wednesday or on Thursday. Must have either been really uneventful or so traumatic it’s been blocked out of my memory.



Friday, June 16, however was more memorable although not for good reason. I had woken up with a migraine and taken one of my precious pills from home. Then Carli and I went back to Sembabule with USDC. I thought it was going to be more school sensitization and thought it would be fun for her to see all the kids and feel like a movie star. Anyway, those terrible roads combined with my medication made me very ill. It was the worst 2 hour drive of my life. When we arrived at the centre I ran to the bathroom (or pit toilet) in case I had to throw up. But I think the bathroom conditions were not conducive to throwing up so I just suffered internally. So I lay in the backseat of the truck praying to feel better. Even my magical ginger wasn’t working this time. Meanwhile poor Carli was also suffering through a parent support group meeting all in Luganda of course. When it was break time her and Bernadette came out and we went for lunch. Soooo funny….we DROVE across the street to the restaurant….ahhh you can only laugh! I think I have it figured out why nobody walks here…kids have to walk so far to get to school, sometimes 2 or more hours and people walk so far to fetch water etc. that when they are adults, they take advantage of vehicles as much as possible. That’s my explanation anyway.



After lunch Carli didn’t go back in to the meeting so we sat in the truck bored as heck. I finally suggested that we go for a walk in town (this was pretty much a one street town so it took less than 5 minutes). It was so hot that we felt like we were in a desert in some kind of western movie. Carli managed to find some nice shoes that she had seen in Masaka and had wanted. Then we just counted the minutes until it was time to go. Such a long day.



The ride home was just as awful as the way there and I became very nauseous again. And my poor neck was saying, “what are you doing to me???” Everyone was quiet on the way home so I think everyone was feeling ill or at least really tired. We have declared this the worst day in practicum history. When we got home we dragged ourselves to the Brovad and forced ourselves to eat despite our sickness. Creepy men at the bar were staring at us and I kind of hoped that it was because we looked like we were dying. I took one of Jen’s muscle relaxants and went to bed really early. Chandra and Jen met up with the DFCU bank manager and his wife (Chris and Nora) for another night of Tropic Inn dancing.



This weekend was originally planned for Lake Mburo to see the zebras but ended up that none of us really wanted to go. We were all tired and full of adventures and sickness from the week before. So I went to Lake Nabugabo and spent the whole night throwing up again. I thought that would be a fun way to spend the weekend. Now I am really scared to eat anything! It wasn’t as bad as Erin’s disease but it was still unpleasant and makes me want to come home now! After some recuperation time on Sunday we went out for dinner with Louise and some of her friends. We just had to laugh (to avoid crying) when we were told (despite what the menu said) that there was no rice, no potatoes, no veggie samosas…and when Carli got her “veggie sandwich” it consisted of just peas!! Ha ha, her favourite ;p It became another early night for Carli and Erin while the party animals, Chandra and Jen lived it up at a Karaoke bar.